A Promise Kept

 March 2026

    Once again, we sojourned to New Mexico with a grandchild.  Three years ago, we took our first grandchild on a Spring Break trip when he turned 10 years old.  We promised the other two that they would get the same trip, so we repeated the route with the middle grandchild in 2024.  This time it was our granddaughter's turn.  (In fact, when we returned from our last long trip in October, the first thing she said to me was, "You remember that you are taking me on a trip when I am 10?")  We fulfilled the promise last week.

    We made a repeat stop at The Coming King Sculpture Prayer Garden in Kerrville, TX.  Each time we stop, we leave a new rock with a family member's name.  This time it was another of my sisters who died 6 weeks ago.

Ready for adventure before the sun rose

Beautiful flowers in the sculpture garden

    Then the long drive across west Texas on I-10.  Obligatory stop in Fort Stockton to see "Paisano Pete".

We love to find interesting murals.  Here are two in Fort Stockton.

    On the second day, we arrived at Guadalupe Mountains National Park.  A family in the campsite next to ours had a girl of Araceli's age, so they entertained each other quite well.  We spent time with them at our next campground in New Mexico, too.  Serendipity!

Guadalupe Peak, highest point in Texas.

We are so glad we hiked to the top in our (much) younger days.

Any road trip with your Kissell grandparents includes geocaching.  

She was always ready to jump out of the van and join the search.

Day 3: New Mexico

finding a geocache on a train engine

Unfortunately, the petting zoo was not open.

I am not sure who displayed more curiosity, the animal or the human.

Oliver Lee Memorial State Park near Alamogordo, NM

I love this view of the Sacramentio Mountains from the campground.

World's largest pistachio in Alamogordo

And the main attraction for a kid is . . .

. . . and even more fun when you make a new friend in the dunes.

new friends and a cookout with two other families (with s'mores)

It was a tiring day!

A few more stops before returning to Texas . . .

quick visit to the lava fields of Valley of Fires Recreation Area near Carrizozo

Smokey Bear Historical Park, Capitan, NM

Smokey's gravesite

Last year, Brian and I passed through Abilene, TX - "Storybook Capital of America".

We decided to visit the sculpture gardens again with Araceli.

pointing to Charlotte in her web - TERRIFIC!

For our last night of this trip, we rented a yurt at Abilene State Park - a first for all three of us.

More CCC-built structures in a Texas state park

Two more stops

annual Texas Geocaching Challenge in Taylor

 event "logbook" was an inflatable duck

We ended the trip a day early and made it home for Logan's birthday.

We are now grandparents of a teenager!

Final thoughts:

    We made this trip three times in three years.  I strongly suspect that we will never visit Guadalupe Mountains NP or White Sands NP again.  After visiting these parks with our children and now our grandchildren, we will seek out new places to explore as long as we can travel.  We are planning to leave in late May for our next big journey, joining my nephew and others, to inter my sister's ashes next to her husband's in Maine.

    It is our fervent hope that we have instilled in our grandchildren an appreciation for our public lands and that they will continue to explore them in future years.

Brian's review:

    We are home from our final “grandchild 10-year-old road trip”, so I decided to write something to add to our blog. I will leave the details to Kris, and just give my overall impressions. 

    When we decided to create this tradition, we had no idea what to expect.  We planned on offering the same experiences on each trip, but knowing that each child is different, we knew that we would not do the very same things each time

.    It was good that they didn’t share with each other what they did, because they couldn’t be disappointed if something didn’t go as planned.

    You learn a lot about a person - no matter their size - when you spend seven full days with them!  We love sharing some of our experiences with them, and hopefully creating memories with them. We try to celebrate the big and little things with them..

    I am so glad that we were able to fulfill the promise we made to them three years ago. Unfortunately, the energy of a ten year old is not contagious, so it was a bit harder each trip we took, but I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything!