Sunday, June 10, 2018

Not Alaska - part 2

Week one is done!

Brian again, first person this time. I am putting updates here on the blog so it will be there when I am finished with the treatment, and so it isn't 'out there' on Facebook for everyone else to see. I think this extra step is a way to avoid a pity party.

Thank you, everyone, for your comments, support, and prayers after last week's post. I hope you continue reading the blog when I'm well, and we are back on the road.

I want to tell you all that my spirits are high. I am very much aware that many of you, and your loved ones have gone through much worse than I am going through now. It is a very good feeling to know that so many people have my back.

It is hard to put into words, though, how I feel about my condition. Cancer is just a scary word. When you hear it, you think the worst. From what I've heard and read, this one is very curable, and I am not really concerned about the outcome. Last time I said that I was probably more bummed that we are stuck in Houston during the hot months, and that feeling is stronger each day the temperature nears or exceeds 100. It is what it is.
Me and my very own mask!

I started treatments on Tuesday, and the first one didn't start out well. There was a scheduling mix up because of a power outage, so I had to wait an extra hour to start. I almost lost my temper when they told me they tried to call me to tell me. I didn't recognize the phone numbers, so I thought they were solicitations, so I ignored them. When they first tried to explain to me the situation, I thought that I wasn't going to start that day, so I just walked away and fumed. When I got it together, I went back and they said I could do it then. I still don't know why they didn't tell me it would be an hour wait when I got there at the appointment time. The treatment took longer than I expected it to because they had to get the doctor to make sure it was aligned properly (a good thing!), but they didn't tell me that when they started. With that stupid mask on for only the second time, it seemed a lot longer than it really was, I'm sure.

The next three treatments took a lot less time. I set my stopwatch when I took my glasses off and checked the time when I put them back on after the treatment, and it was only 4 ½ minutes. I sure am glad I'm not having to drive into Houston to get it done. That is another thing that I am grateful for.

Like someone said on Facebook, Alaska will still be there. I will still be here, too, so we can just make plans for the trip in two years. It will be too late to go that far this year, and next year I have a family reunion in Pennsylvania, so we have a lot of time to dream and make plans.

Thank you again for your support and prayers.

Sunday, June 3, 2018

College Station (not Alaska) Edition

June 3, 2018

     Brian here.
     Well, this isn't the blog posting we expected to be making at this time! Since we returned from our last trip, we have been planning an Alaska journey that was supposed to last from mid-May until October. Life gets in the way, though.
     Back in January, Brian started having a hoarse throat. We thought it was just allergies, because there was nothing else unusual, but it didn't go away. Come April, he decided to have it checked out by an ENT, and nasal antihistamines helped a great deal. The doctor wanted to check his throat with a scope, so that procedure was done. She saw a small nodule on one of his vocal cords, but said that it looked small and clear, but a biopsy would be a good thing. We figured that it would be a good thing to do, so early last month, the outpatient biopsy was performed.
      As many of you know, when you get a call from the doctor asking if you can come in early to discuss results, they are not often good. He had talked to the doctor about our plans, and she wanted to tell us that we needed to change them. The nodule is cancer, but luckily, it has a 90% cure rate with either surgery or radiation. The next thing we needed to do was discuss those options with doctors and decide which one would be best. Since the biopsy did not go as smoothly as planned, and since the ENT doctor was less than enthusiastic about the surgery, we chose radiation.
      Last Tuesday, he went in to have his 'mask' made in preparation for the radiation. They form a mesh material over your head that they attach to the radiation table so you can't move during the treatment – they want to aim at the same place every day. If you want Google "larynx cancer mask" to see a mask, and learn more about the procedure.  This Tuesday he starts treatments every weekday for 6 ½ weeks. A good thing is that he doesn't have to go downtown to do them, he can do it locally.
So, what does that have to do with our travels? We haven't gone anywhere special together since last Fall, and were anxious to go SOMEWHERE. Big Bend had been a nice trip with Mark's family, but it just fueled the travel fire.
     We decided to take a short trip close by. It is already approaching 100 degrees, so camping was out of the question. Since we have been talking about visiting the Bush Presidential Libraries, we chose to go the College Station to experience the G. H. W. Bush Library. We are glad we did. It is very well done, and we learned a lot.
Of course, we did some geocaching along the way, and got to explore some more back roads of Texas. We stopped for a quick visit with Kris's college roommate in Conroe, and are now home for a while.

On a back road near Bryan - only missing one 'L'

Neat tribute at Veteran's park in Bryan/College Station

One of my favorite observations at the Bush Library

In the Barbara Bush section of the Museum.  We could have spent a lot of time here.

A tiny cemetery near North Zulch - one grave!

      At this point in time, we are altering our plans, and hope to be able to go the the Pacific Northwest for about 6 weeks, after treatment, and before follow-up visits. We are lucky that we hadn't made any reservations for the planned Alaska adventure, so we avoided that hassle.

     Our spirits are high, though. We caught the cancer early, and it is very treatable. Brian is more upset about missing the trip at this time (and being stuck in Houston's summer heat) than he is about the treatments. We will just have to go with the flow and put the Alaska trip back on our “to do” list again. Some people say that planning and looking forward to trips is the most fun part of vacations. If that is the case, it will be an exceptional journey.

Tuesday, April 3, 2018

March 24 – 31, 2018          Special Edition:  Our Big Bend Adventure


The truck is loaded and we are eagerly anticipating our departure for West Texas in the morning. Brian and I have been home since our last big trip that ended in early October. Brian had minor eye surgical procedures spread over a few months and I had brain surgery to remove a benign meningioma that was discovered two years ago during an ER visit in Homestead, Florida. All is well now for us to travel and reconnect with the wide open spaces of Big Bend National Park. We are especially excited about this trip because our son, Mark, and his family are going with us. It will be the first national park visit for our grandchildren: Logan (age 5), Caleb (almost 4), and Araceli (just turned 2 years old last week).


The drive to Big Bend National Park from our home southeast of Houston is almost 700 miles so we decided to drive halfway and take frequent playground stops with the kids and stay in a motel in Junction, TX. It was about 10:00 a.m. when our little caravan of two pick-up trucks headed out from our driveway. We spotted bluebonnets and other wildflowers along the interstate west of Houston in the usual locations. We drove up state highway 71 from Columbus to Austin and found a safe place to pull over and take pictures of the kids in a patch of bluebonnets. As usual, it was hard to get all three to smile at the camera at the same time.

After checking in at the motel in Junction, we made the short drive to South Llano River State Park for a pleasant hour on the trails. We found a bird blind and did some bird watching (hummingbirds, titmouse, cardinals, and others).


Three hours from Junction to Fort Stockton without stopping as the kids napped in their carseats. Picnic and playground time at a nice park in FS before heading south to BBNP. If you are unfamiliar with that stretch of highway, there is only one small town, Marathon, between FS and the north entrance to BBNP. We did not stop at the BBNP entrance sign for pictures because the kids were sleeping and we still had another 50 miles to go before arriving at our Rio Grande Village campground.

The picture below was taken four days later on our way out of the park:

We set up camp while the temperature was still in the 90s and cooked dinner. Krystal and I walked around the campground with the kids and spotted a group of 12 javelinas. The bear box at the campsite had a caution message about bears and javelinas. Cloudy skies prevented any star-gazing and the heat made it difficult to fall asleep.

The boys help Mark and me pitch the tent

Celi seems to enjoy her first camping trip.

The campsite had a great tree for little boys to climb.

Camping breakfasts taste soooo good so we fueled our bodies before setting out to explore the park. First stop of the day was the visitor center at Panther Junction to pick up Junior Ranger booklets, postcards, and a copy of a children's book, The Three Little Javelinas. The park film was very good, as usual.

       Our first hike in the park was on the Grapevine Hills Trail. The kids loved bouncing along the 7.5 miles of bumpy gravel road to the trailhead. Kitted out with binoculars, we set out for Balanced Rock just over a mile away. Cloudy skies meant comfortable hiking weather. The kids did well and had a great time climbing on the rocks (their daddy did, too). This grandma came prepared with snacks in her hip pack so we ate them while sitting under the balanced rock. On the hike back to the truck, I heard a rock fall and looked up to the ridge and saw some big horn sheep silhouetted against the sky. The animals below the ridge were hard to spot they were so well camouflaged.
setting out on the Grapevine Hills Trail

Grapevine Hills Trail

Caleb and Mark
Mark and his daddy ham it up for the camera.
Mark and his boys
Grandma doles out snacks

 Below Balanced Rock at the end of Grapevine Hills Trail

looking south from Balanced Rock
Bumpy gravel road back to the main paved park road and then the lovely drive up into the Chisos Mountain Basin. Brian and I camped up there in 2009 and it is cooler and forested up there.
We had our picnic lunch there and then made the short walk on the paved Window View Trail. The hike to “The Window” pouroff is quite steep so we will save that for a future trip. Back at Rio Grande Village, we loaded up with quarters and headed for the showers. It's been many years since I helped small children to take showers in a campground, but Krystal and I managed to get the two youngest kids cleaned up. Again, no star-gazing because of cloudy skies, but more comfortable sleeping temperature.
 view of "The Window" in the Chisos Mountains

Celi and the bear box at the campsite

The sky cleared off during the night and I woke up before dawn in time to see stars fading from the sky. The morning was cool and sunny as we enjoyed a pancake and bacon breakfast. Our plan for the day was to make the 60-mile drive to the other side of the park to get our first view of the Rio Grande and hike into Santa Elena Canyon. We made a quick stop at Panther Junction to mail postcards and use toilets. We saw the west side of the Chisos from the Ross Maxwell Scenic Drive. We could see the V-shaped “Window” in the mountains very well. 
 Our first clear day and a good view of the Chisos
We found a picnic table at the parking area for Santa Elena Canyon Trail and ate lunch. A roadrunner casually strolled by our table. Although the close proximity of animals in a picnic area is due to their scavenging for human food and not desirable, it does give small children a close-up look at them. We set off down the trail and were soon on the bank of the Rio Grande. The hike involves a series of switchbacks and steps that take you up about 80 feet above the river before entering into the canyon itself. It was a sunny day and any little shade was appreciated. At the end of the trail where further hiking into the canyon is impossible, Mark, Krystal, and the kids took off their shoes and waded into the shallow water. They walked across to touch the canyon wall on the Mexico side. The water was only thigh-deep on Logan so they were able to negotiate the slow current safely and splash around.
next to the Rio Grande, Santa Elena Canyon behind us

 looking down river from the Santa Elena Canyon Trail
Logan examines a rock for fossils

Mark's family wading in the shallow river

 on the Mexico side of the river
 coming back
Santa Elena Canyon - the canyon walls are 1500 feet high

At last, we had a clear night sky to look at the almost full moon and constellations (a Junior Ranger activity).

Clear skies overnight made for a cold morning – about 40 degrees! Hot chocolate and warm blankets for the kids until the morning sun came up and warmed the air. A morning hike into Boquillas Canyon not far from the campground until we came to a shaded portion of the river and a rock for climbing, of course. We saw people riding horses on the Mexico side of the river.

Boquillas Canyon - standing on rocks is a must!

Another visit to Panther Junction where Caleb and Logan showed their Junior Ranger booklets to Ranger Daphne and received their badges. Ice cream treats from the camp store followed to celebrate. Our last hike in the park was a short one to Hot Springs and a soak in the 105-degree water right at the edge of the big river. We saw some petroglyphs along the trail.
Making the Junior Ranger promise with Ranger Daphne

proudly wearing Junior Ranger badges

soaking in the Hot Springs

Full moon flooded the campground with light so no flashlights were needed to walk around. The campground hosts were gracious and let us view the moon through the telescope they had set up next to their RV. A perfect ending to a great day.

Our last morning in BBNP. After the tent was taken down and all gear stowed away in the trucks, we were on our way. Before leaving the park, we stopped at the new Fossil Discovery Center and enjoy the still-cool morning air in the desert. Just before leaving the park boundary, we stopped at the Big Bend National Park sign for pictures. Quite a few other people waited their turn for pictures. The park will be quite busy now that the 3-day Easter weekend has begun. Our Big Bend Adventure has come to an end, but we were already thinking about a return visit someday when the kids are older. Some day I want to hike the South Rim Trail up in the Chisos Basin and make the Mule Ears Trail hike.
 Fossil Discovery Exhibit
 T rex had some mighty big teeth!
 special play structures in "The Boneyard"
BBNP is so vast and varied that I can understand how some people feel drawn to visit it every year despite the remoteness, or because of it.    We have come to love the deserts of the U.S.   If you are prepared and know how to deal with its challenges, the desert is a beautiful part of God's Creation.

After a return stay at the motel in Junction last night, we decided to separate from Mark's family for the return drive to Houston. They planned to visit one of Krystal's relatives in San Antonio and we wanted to make geocaching stops. We made our way home on back roads between San Antonio and Houston. Total distance traveled this trip: 1700 miles.

Our next adventure: We plan to leave in late May and head to Alaska for most of the summer.


Thursday, October 5, 2017

October 2, 2017     THE END . . . for now

The last week of this grand journey was through southern Missouri and into Arkansas.  Beautiful country!   Nature, camping, history, art for the finale.

Kris has been wanting to see a Dale Chihuly exhibit and we knew there was a temporary one in northwestern Arkansas until November.  While it wasn't on the way home, that didn't stop us from making another detour.  We are very glad we spent a few days in the beautiful Ozards area.  We camped at Beaver Lake near Eureka Springs where our campsite was right on the lakeshore - perfect for watching Canada geese, sunsets, and sunrises.

 Bookends to September 29 - sunrise from Mark Twain National Forest in Missouri to
sunset over Beaver Lake in Arkansas

Beaver Lake from our campsite
One of the challenges of camping at this time of the year is trying to stay in bed until daylight.
We usually are up before the sun and another gorgeous sunrise was our reward on Sept. 30
If you are ever in the Bentonville, Arkansas area, we highly recommend visiting the Crystal Bridges Museum of American Art.  We were there for the Dale Chihuly In The Forest exhibit, but were pleasantly surprised at the extensive permanent art exhibits, the Frank Lloyd Wright house, and Buckminster Fuller's Fly's Eye Dome.


This piece caught my eye from across the room . . .
. . . a closer look . . .
 . . .  shoelaces
Andy Warhol
 Awesome spider sculpture in the courtyard
Chihuly chandelier
 Fly's Eye Dome - exhibited in Los Angeles decades ago, languished in storage for years, and now
on display at Crystal Bridges, one of the last Buckminster Fuller projects.


Frank Lloyd Wright's Bachman-Wilson House built in New Jersey in the 1950s, carefully deconstructed and shipped to Bentonville and reconstructed on Crystal Bridge's grounds in 2015.
"Chihuly in the Forest" exhibit
(Dale Chihuly is an American glass sculptor. His works are considered to possess outstanding artistic merit in the field of blown glass, "moving it into the realm of large-scale sculpture." Wikipedia)

This piece is titled "Sole D'Oro" and contains 1,400 hand-blown pieces of glass and weighs more than 5,000 pounds.


 "Fiori Boat"

We drove into the town of Eureka Springs to attend mass and then visited "Christ of the Ozarks" statue.   A surprise - a piece of the Berlin Wall on display.

 67 feet tall

Magnificent Thorncrown Chapel:

A service was getting ready to start so we only had time for a quick look inside:


We couldn't leave Bentonville without a quick visit to the Walmart Museum:
Three more National Park Sites:  Pea Ridge National Military Park in northwestern Arkansas, Little Rock Central High School National Historic Site,  and the President Clinton Birthplace Home in Hope, Arkansas.  (We visited a total of 40 NPS sites on this trip.)
Little Rock Central High School is still an active school.
And a visit to the William J. Clinton Presidential Center in Little Rock.  There was an excellent exhibit on the life of Nelson Mandela and one on The Art of Africa (many of the pieces on display were from the Clintons' personal collection).

Note the Chihuly Art Glass piece on the upper level.
Seen while geocaching:
Tenaha, Texas


We wanted to camp one last night at Caddo Lake State Park in east Texas, but rainy conditions caused us to change our minds and press on to Houston, arriving home at 9:30 p.m.  Our son, Joel, was there to greet us with a big hug.
Another epic trip is over . . .  19,000 miles in 113 days (we camped 86 of them), 23 states and 3 provinces.  We are so very blessed to be able to travel as we do.  Traveling light without being restricted by towing a trailer or RV keeps our cost down.  Whenever possible, we camped in federal campgrounds to take advantage of half-price camping now that we have our lifetime senior pass.  Visiting National Park Service sites is a big part of our life-long learning quest and watching the ever-changing view from our vehicle's windows never stops yielding surprises.  We certainly didn't expect to go to President Jimmy Carter's Sunday School class, observe whales in the Gulf of St. Lawrence, or see a 67-foot statue of Christ in the Ozarks.  We keep our eyes and minds open to opportunities along the way as we travel.  We never know what will be around the next bend in the road (to loosely quote Charles Kuralt).  God willing and if our health allows it, we hope to travel many more miles together.